This list has quite a few problems. It is not comprehensive, though I would like to have additions. It only deals with male filmmakers and actresses, though there must be interesting other cases. And it mixes all relationships regardless of whether the film itself was influenced, or the public knew when the film was made.
But here you are. Please email me with corrections or additions.
From the List of Fours
Woody Allen
Frederico Fellini
Stanley Kubrick
Akira Kurosawa
Roman Polanski
Andrey Tarkovskiy
Orson Welles
Kar Wai Wong (???)
Christopher Nolan (indirectly)
Al Adamson and Regina Carroll
The Female Bunch (1969)
Satan's Sadists (1969)
Dracula vs. Frankenstein (1971)
Angels' Wild Women (1972)
Blood of Ghastly Horror (1972)
Brain of Blood (1972)
Naughty Stewardesses (1974)
Blazing Stewardesses (1974)
Black Heat (1975)
Jessi's Girls (1975)
Doctor Dracula (1981)
Woody Allen and Mia Farrow
A Midsummer Night's Sex Comedy (1982)
Zelig (1983)
Broadway Danny Rose (1984)
The Purple Rose of Cairo (1985)
Hannah and Her Sisters (1986)
Radio Days (1987)
September (1987)
Another Woman (1988)
New York Stories (1989)
Crimes and Misdemeanors (1989)
Alice (1990)
Husbands and Wives (1992)
Shadows and Fog (1992)
Woody Allen and Diane Keaton
Sleeper (1973)
Love and Death (1975)
Annie Hall (1977)
Interiors (1978)
Manhattan (1979)
Radio Days (1987)
Manhattan Murder Mystery (1993)
Dario Argento and Daria Nicolodi
Deep Red (Profondo Rosso) (1975)
Inferno (1980)
Tenebre (1982)
Phenomenon (1985)
Opera (1987)
Mother of Tears: The Third Mother (Terza madre) (2007)
Warren Beatty and Julie Christie
Heaven Can Wait (1978)
Warren Beatty and Diane Keaton
Reds (1981)
Roberto Benigni and Nicoletta Braschi
You Disturb Me (1983)
The Little Devil (1988)
Johnny Toothpick (1991)
The Monster (1996)
Life Is Beautiful (1998)
Roberto Benigni's Pinocchio (2002)
The Tiger and the Snow (2006)
Ingmar Bergman and Käbi Laretei
Stimulantia (1967)
Fanny and Alexander (1982)
Ingmar Bergman and Liv Ullmann
Persona (1966)
Hour of the Wolf (1968)
Shame (1968)
Faro Document (1970)
The Passion of Anna (1970)
Cries and Whispers (1972)
Scenes from a Marriage (1974)
The Magic Flute (1975)
Face to Face (1976)
The Serpent's Egg (1977)
Autumn Sonata (1978)
Saraband (2003)
Ingmar Bergman and Ingrid von Rosen
Cries and Whispers (1972)
Luc Besson and Milla Jovovich
Fifth Element, The (1997)
Messenger: The Story of Joan of Arc, The (1999)
Luc Besson and Anne Parillaud
Nikita (1990)
Walerian Borowczyk and Ligia Branice
House (1958)
The Astronauts (1959)
Rosalie (1966)
Goto, Island of Love (1968)
Blanche (1971)
Within a Cloister (1978)
Kenneth Branagh and Emma Thompson
Henry V (1989)
Dead Again (1991)
Peter's Friends (1992)
Much Ado About Nothing (1993)
Richard Brooks and Jean Simmons
Elmer Gantry (1960)
The Happy Ending (1969)
Tim Burton and Helena Bonham Carter
Planet of the Apes (2001)
Tim Burton and Lisa Marie
Ed Wood (1994)
Mars Attacks! (1996)
Sleepy Hollow (1999)
Planet of the Apes (2001)
James Cameron and Suzy Amis
Titanic (1997)
James Cameron and Linda Hamilton
The Terminator (1984)
Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
T2 3-D: Battle Across Time (1996)
John Cassavetes and Gena Rowlands
Shadows (1959)
A Child Is Waiting (1963)
Faces (1968)
Minnie and Moskowitz (1971)
A Woman Under the Influence (1974)
Opening Night (1977)
Gloria (1980)
Love Streams (1984)
Claude Chabrol and Stéphane Audran
The Cousins (1959)
Wise Guys (1961)
The Third Lover (1962)
Bluebeard (1963)
Code Name: Tiger (1964)
Blue Panther (1965)
Six in Paris (1965)
The Good Time Girls (1966)
Line of Demarcation (1966)
Bad Girls (1968)
The Champagne Murders (1968)
The Unfaithful Wife (1969)
The Butcher (1970)
The Break Up (1970)
Just Before Nightfall (1973)
Wedding in Blood (1973)
The Twist (1976)
Blood Relatives (1978)
Violette (1978)
Les Affinités électives (1982)
The Blood of Others (1984)
Cop au vin (1985)
Les Dossiers secrets de l'inspecteur Lavardin (1988)
Quiet Days in Clichy (1990)
Betty (1992)
Joel Coen and Frances McDormand
Blood Simple (1984)
Raising Arizona (1987)
Miller's Crossing (1990)
Fargo (1996)
The Man Who Wasn't There (2001)
Brian De Palma and Nancy Allen
Carrie (1976)
Home Movies (1979)
Dressed to Kill (1980)
Blow Out (1981)
Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman
The Ratings Game (1984)
Matilda (1996)
Clint Eastwood and Francis Fisher
Unforgiven (1992)
Clint Eastwood and Sondra Locke
Outlaw Josey Wales, The (1976)
The Gauntlet (1977)
Bronco Billy (1980)
Sudden Impact (1983)
Blake Edwards and Julie Andrews
Darling Lili (1970)
The Tamarind Seed (1974)
10 (1979)
S.O.B. (1981)
Victor Victoria (1982)
Trail of the Pink Panther (1982)
The Man Who Loved Women (1983)
That's Life! (1986)
Victor/Victoria (1995)
Atom Egoyan and Arsinée Khanjian
Next of Kin (1984)
Family Viewing (1987)
Looking for Nothing (1988)
Speaking Parts (1989)
The Adjuster (1991)
Montréal vu par... (1991)
Calendar (1993)
Exotica (1994)
A Portrait of Arshile (1995)
Bach Cello Suite #4: Sarabande (1997)
The Sweet Hereafter (1997)
Felicia's Journey (1999)
Ararat (2002)
Rainer Werner Fassbinder and Ingrid Caven
Love Is Colder Than Death (1969)
Why Does Herr R. Run Amok? (1970)
Gods of the Plague (1970)
The American Soldier (1970)
The Niklashausen Journey (1970)
The Coffeehouse (1970)
Beware the Holy Whore (1971)
Rio das Mortes (1971)
The Merchant of Four Seasons (1972)
Martha (1973)
World on a Wire (1974)
Mother Kusters Goes to Heaven (1975)
Fist-Right of Freedom (1975)
Fear of Fear (1975)
Satan's Brew (1976)
Despair (1978)
In a Year of 13 Moons (1978)
Federico Fellini and Giulietta Masina
Variety Lights (1950)
The White Sheik (1952)
La Strada (1954)
The Swindle (1955)
Nights of Cabiria (1957)
Juliet of the Spirits (1965)
Ginger and Fred (1986)
Mike Figgis and Saffron Burrows
One Night Stand (1997)
Miss Julie (1999)
The Loss of Sexual Innocence (1999)
Timecode (2000)
Hotel (2001)
Jesus Franco and Lina Romay
Female Vampire (1973)
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Vincent Gallo and Chloë Sevigny
The Brown Bunny (2003)
Jean-Luc Godard and Anna Karina
A Woman Is a Woman (1961)
My Life to Live (1962)
The Little Soldier (1963)
Band of Outsiders 2.Bande à part (1964)
Dick Tracy On Mars (1965)
Made in U.S.A. (1966)
The Oldest Profession (1967)
Jean-Luc Godard and Anne Wiazemsky
Week End (1967)
La Chinoise (1967)
Sympathy for the Devil (1968)
Vent d'est, Le (1969)
Lotte in Italia (1970)
Vladimir et Rosa (1970)
One P.M. (1972)
All's Well (1972)
Lasse Hallstrom and Lena Olin
Lumière et compagnie (1995)
Chocolat (2000)
Renny Harlin and Geena Davis
Cutthroat Island (1995)
The Long Kiss Goodnight (1996)
Juzo Itami and Tsutomu Yamazaki
Ososhiki (1984)
Tampopo (1985)
Marusa no onna (1987)
Shizukana seikatsu (1995)
Harmony Korine and Chloë Sevigny
Gummo (1997)
Julien Donkey-Boy (1999)
Stanley Kubrick and Susanne Christian Kubrick
Paths of Glory (1957)
Stanley Kubrick and Ruth Sobotka
Killer's Kiss (1955)
Akira Kurosawa and Yôko Yaguchi
The Most Beautiful (1944)
Fritz Lang and Joan Bennett
Confirm or Deny (1941)
Man Hunt (1941)
The Woman in the Window (1944)
Scarlet Street (1945)
Secret Beyond the Door (1948)
David Lean and Sandra Hotz
Passage to India (1984) [bit part]
Mike Leigh and Alison Steadman
Hard Labour (1973)
Nuts in May (1976)
Abigail's Party (1977)
The Short and Curlies (1987)
Life Is Sweet (1990)
Secrets & Lies (1996)
Topsy-Turvy (1999)
David Lynch and Peggy Lynch
The Alphabet (1968)
Eraserhead (1977)
David Lynch and Isabella Rossellini
Blue Velvet (1986)
Wild at Heart (1990)
David Mamet and Rebecca Pidgeon
Homicide (1991)
The Spanish Prisoner (1997)
The Winslow Boy (1999)
State and Main (2000)
Catastrophe (2000)
Heist (2001)
Vincente Minnelli and Judy Garland
Meet Me in St. Louis (1944)
The Clock (1945)
Ziegfeld Follies (1946)
Till the Clouds Roll by (1947)
Pirate, The (1948)
Colin Nutley and Helena Bergstrom
Black Jack (1990)
Änglagård (1992)
Sista dansen (1993)
Änglagård - andra sommaren (1994)
Sånt är livet (1996)
Under Solen (1998) 6.9
Gossip (2000) 5.0
Sprängaren (2001)
Roman Polanski and Mia Farrrow
Rosemary’s Baby (1969)
Roman Polanski and Emmanuelle Seinger
Bitter Moon (1992)
Frantic (1988)
The Ninth Gate (1999)
Roman Polanski and Sharon Tate
The Fearless Vampire Killers (1967)
Tony Richardson and Vanessa Redgrave
Red and Blue (1967)
The Sailor from Gibraltar (1967)
The Charge of the Light Brigade (1968)
Tim Robbins and Susan Sarandon
Bob Roberts (1992)
Dead Man Walking (1995)
Cradle Will Rock (1999)
Roberto Rossellini and Ingrid Bergman
Stromboli (1950)
The Greatest Love (1954)
Joan of Arc at the Stake (1954)
Voyage to Italy (1954)
Fear (1956)
Of Life and Love (1958)
Rupert Sanders and Kristen Stewart
Snow White and the Huntsman (2012)
Paul Schrader and Natassja Kinski
Cat People (1982)
Josef von Sternberg and Marlene Dietrich
The Blue Angel (1930)
Morocco (1930)
Dishonored (1931)
Blonde Venus (1932)
Shanghai Express (1932)
The Scarlet Empress (1934)
The Devil Is a Woman (1935)
The Fashion Side of Hollywood (1935)
Andrei Tarkovsky and Irma Raush
Ivanovo Detstvo (1962)
Andrei Rublyov (1969)
Steven Soderbergh and Betsy Brantley
Schizopolis (1996)
Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw
Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom (1984)
George Stevens and Joan Fontaine
Damsel in Distress, A (1937)
Quality Street (1937)
Gunga Din (1939)
Something to Live for (1952)
John Turturro and Katherine Borowitz
Mac (1992)
Illuminata (1998)
Rachel Ward and Bryan Brown
Beautiful Kate (2009)
Orson Welles and Virginia Nicholson
Hearts of Age (1934)
Too Much Johnson (1938)
Orson Welles and Rita Hayworth
Lady from Shanghai, The (1948)
Orson Welles and Paola Mori
Mr. Arkadin (1955)
Portrait of Gina (1958)
The Trial (1963)
In the Land of Don Quixote (1964)
Orson Welles and Oja Kodar
The Deep (1970)
The Other Side of the Wind (1972)
Wim Wenders and Ronee Blakley
Lightning Over Water (1980)
Docu Drama (1984)
Wim Wenders and Solveig Dommartin
Wings of Desire (1987)
Until the End of the World (1991)
Faraway, So Close! (1993)
Wim Wenders and Edda Köchl
Summer in the City (1970)
The Goalie's Anxiety at the Penalty Kick (1971)
Alice in the Cities (1974)
Wim Wenders and Lisa Kreuzer
Alice in the Cities (1974)
The Wrong Movement (1974)
Haus für uns, Ein (1974)
Kings of the Road (1976)
The American Friend (1977)
William Wyler and Bette Davis
Jezebel (1938)
Zhang Yimou and Gong Li
Red Sorghum (1987)
Codename Cougar (1989)
Ju Dou (1990)
The Story of Qiu Ju (1992)
Raise the Red Lantern (1992)
To Live (1994)
Shanghai Triad (1995)
Curse of the Golden Flower (2006)
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